I-It
"I-It" is a concept introduced by philosopher Martin Buber to describe a type of relationship where one person views another as an object or a means to an end. In this dynamic, individuals interact with each other based on utility or function rather than genuine connection. For example, a person might see a cashier merely as someone to complete a transaction, rather than as a fellow human being.
In contrast to "I-Thou" relationships, which emphasize mutual respect and understanding, "I-It" interactions can lead to feelings of isolation and disconnection. This perspective often dominates in modern society, where people may prioritize efficiency over meaningful engagement, impacting relationships in various contexts, such as in the workplace or during everyday encounters.