"Getting the Love You Want" is a relationship guide written by Harville Hendrix, a therapist and author. The book focuses on helping couples understand their emotional needs and improve their communication skills. It introduces the concept of "Imago Therapy," which suggests that partners subconsciously seek out traits in each other that reflect their childhood experiences. The book provides practical exercises and tools for couples to deepen their connection and resolve conflicts. By exploring their past and recognizing patterns in their relationships, readers can learn to create a more fulfilling and loving partnership. Overall, it aims to foster healthier, more satisfying relationships.