Homonym: The Ref (Referee)
"The Ref" is a 1994 comedy film directed by Ted Demme that stars Denis Leary as a thief who becomes a reluctant referee during a dysfunctional family's Christmas dinner. The story unfolds as he takes the family hostage, only to find himself caught in their chaotic arguments and personal issues.
The film explores themes of family dynamics and holiday stress, blending humor with moments of tension. Alongside Leary, the cast includes Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey, who portray the couple at the center of the family drama. The movie is known for its sharp dialogue and comedic take on the holiday season.