Tameka "Tame" Cottle is an American singer and songwriter, best known as a member of the R&B group Xscape. Born on July 14, 1975, in College Park, Georgia, she gained fame in the 1990s with the group, which produced hits like "Just Kickin' It" and "Understanding." Cottle has also collaborated with various artists and contributed to the writing of several popular songs. In addition to her music career, Tameka Cottle is recognized for her marriage to rapper T.I., with whom she has two children. She has appeared on reality television, including the show T.I. & Tiny: The Family Hustle, showcasing her family life and career.