"Not My Father's Son" is a memoir by Alan Cumming, a Scottish actor and author. In this book, Cumming explores his complex relationship with his father, who was abusive and controlling. The narrative delves into Cumming's childhood experiences and the impact of his father's behavior on his life and career. The memoir also highlights Cumming's journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Through storytelling, he reflects on themes of identity, trauma, and resilience. The book intertwines personal anecdotes with broader reflections on family dynamics, ultimately revealing how Cumming has forged his own path away from his father's shadow.