"A Complicated Kindness" is a novel by Miriam Toews that explores the life of a young girl named Nomi Nickel living in a strict Mennonite community in Manitoba, Canada. The story is set in the 1980s and delves into Nomi's struggles with her family's expectations, her search for identity, and her desire for freedom from the oppressive environment. The narrative is characterized by its blend of humor and sadness, as Nomi reflects on her relationships with her family, particularly her father and sister, who have both left the community. Through her journey, the novel addresses themes of faith, rebellion, and the complexities of love and belonging.